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Writing for my enemy

Sometimes winning is not what you want

Edward Hines
3 min readJul 3, 2020

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It’s Monday night and the beginning of a new tradition — whiskey Zoom with two old friends. The call ends. The effects of the whiskey don’t. Rather than do the wise thing — drink some water and go to bed I just check Facebook.

I read a post that I consider dishonest, disingenuous and likely to promote harm.

There is a rise in my heart rate. I refute the post, with logic if not diplomacy.

My refute is met with a mixture of denial and counter-argument.

I meet the counter-argument with more logic and facts.

The facts and logic are ignored. The enemy maintains his position by talking about something else which is at best tangential.

The process continues. The enemy dismisses sources because they disagree with him and must, therefore, be biased.

The enemy generalises about the nature of entire nations, of entire continents.

The enemy categorises me as being part of a group that I do not belong to or agree with.

Faced with a skewering question, he clearly cannot answer, the enemy evades.

Faced with a statement, the enemy has posted since proven wrong, the enemy ignores the new information. He…

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Edward Hines

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